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Never too old for raspberry fingers!
Perplexus Boys
Teaching nutrition
We make a point every day to feed the boys healthy organic foods. They are very aware of what is nutritious and what is not.
Sometimes, on a tired morning, you just want to offer easy food and all this healthy talk comes and stabs you in the back.
Me: Lucas, do you want some cereal?
Lucas: No. Today I would like a healthy breakfast.
darnit.
Good Morning to a beautiful day.
Christmas portrait…
We just took this picture today. Usually, we take the pic on Christmas day every year but somehow didn’t manage it this time around. Now, it’s time to take the decorations down! Yay, in a way, because we get our living room back.
The house is back in order (yay) which means a full schedule of lessons begins next week. It’s easier when the bookshelves are in place and books are easily available. The boys had a challenge today as they played chess against other kids at the library while I went to yoga with a friend. Steve lost to the provincial champ. He is 10. Smart kids! Okay, Steve has only played a few times and I have never. After dinner Lucas and I played a game of checkers (Lucas wanted to play chess but it would have been a short game) while Steve and Xander played Battleship. See pic below: Let’s just say, Lucas’ pieces are the yellow ones. Oh, and Xander sank all off Daddy’s battleships! Kids these days!
This afternoon Catherine and I went to yoga and did 108 Sun Salutations with about 50 other wonderful people. It took two hours to get through all 108. One sun salutation set includes about 8 to 10 postures. Multiply that by 108 and that’s a tired but satisfied girl! Dont’ know if I’ll be able to lift my arms tomorrow…totally worth it!
~namaste~
[UPDATE] Conner wasn’t 10. He was 12. Sheesh! Give me some credit.
-stephen
Getting things done – and catching up…
Yesterday was a very productive day and I even found some time to relax. It’s a new way I have of doing things. First, I admit to the fact that as much as I hate being a stickler and anal, being anal about scheduling can be a good thing. Maybe anal isn’t the right word here. I am not stressing if I don’t get through the schedule, but I am adding less to the schedule and including time for me. I don’t try to deviate too much and so far, it’s worked!
The boys and I did the Yoga Kids video when we came downstairs in the morning. (We’ve done various yoga dvd’s three days in a row now! Yipee!) Then had breakfast and I made some GF banana chocolate chip muffins. Then some of this awesome Historic Grains GF bread. I thought I’d give it a try using my hands like many wonderful women before me who didn’t have the luxury of a Kitchen-Aid mixer, mind you it was at least a little tempting to pick one up when they were $200 off during the holidays. Instead of using the mixer for four minutes to heat up the yeast and make sure all ingredients are well combined, I put four minutes on the microwave timer, have a seat and mix with my hand. Ouch. Pretty tough labour there but well worth it. The taste is well worth the work!
Steve came home with a migraine early afternoon for which I do not envy him at all. So, while he chilled with the boys, I went on to other things on my list. Mind you, the rest of the list came after the boys had finished their lessons for the day, including some fun grammar involving acting out the poem Dancing by Eleanor Farjeon. What does this have to do with grammar. Verbs, of course! Gotta love school!
Okay, on with the list. I managed to fix Xander’s new Pidove. He is a Pokemon that Xander picked out as part of his using a gift card from Nanna and Pappa. Then, I mended the seam on a stuffed snake he got a while ago when we went to a reptile place, ah the right word escapes me for that place, but it was while we were visiting Nanna and Pappa two years ago. The seam split probably about a year ago.
I’m getting better at this mending thing though as the last piece of the pile was the bottoms to Xander’s new pj’s. Each Christmas eve the boys get new pj’s and Xman’s bottoms were stupid-huge in the waist. Totally too big. But, he loved them and the top fit perfectly. Go figure. So, I fixed the bottoms. I had to pull out a lot of the waist band and in making it smaller, had to make the back/bum seam smaller, too. I have never done this type of surgery and was hoping that the elastic around the waist wasn’t sewn into the waistband but it was. That’s okay. I got to use the serger setting on my new sewing machine! I am in love with my sewing machine in the way anyone who loves sewing can be and can’t wait to do more! I bought it used on Kijiji months ago because the one I have weighs a ton, more like 30 lbs at least and if I dropped it I’d easily crush my foot. Easily, pinky swear. And that freaked me out a bit. So, I got the new machine from a wonderful older lady who purchased the machine, used it once, and then realized it was more than she needed. Thank you Kijiji. And, it only took me two months to finally sit down and use it which is way better than the history of my serger, which never left the box. Steve, don’t say a thing.
I eventually sold the serger to a textiles student at the art college who was thrilled to take it off my hands for half of what I paid. No kidding.
Not too bad a job for a first time doing this type of thing and really wanting to finish it so Xander could wear them to bed. I finished them as Steve got the boys into their bath. Whew!
It’s not as neat as I’d like around the waist but it won’t come apart and I barely had any material to fold over. So, I’m okay with that.
Well, goodness me! I almost forgot! I finished this too!
“What is that?” you ask. “It’s my first felted piece and I’m totally thrilled with it!”, I say. “It’s a tea cozie (duh) and felting it was easier than I expected!” It finished drying overnight and is a perfect ‘grandé soy chai latté’ fit!
I’m going to do these nests next, as Xander decided to take the cozie for Pidove.
Okay, that’s three posts in two days. Sweet! Now, what’s next on my list is….ah…hmmm…didn’t plan this far ahead. Apparently, there’s a hole in my scheduling planning. Gotta work on that.
Your bum looks funny
Me (stepping out of the shower): Oh, hey kiddo. Did you have a good sleep?
Xander: Daddy, your bum looks funny.
Me: What? It does? What do you mean?
Xander: It looks like this… (turns away and pulls his pants down) …but three of them — all stuck together.
Me: Three of them?
Xander: Yup! (pulls pants up and turns back around) But only two of Lucas’. His bum’s bigger.
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my commitment
My Commitment Moving Forward (inspired by Natalie…)
- I will thank God for my blessings every, single day
- I will LOVE and CHERISH my children and my husband every moment, with every breath
- When I am weighed down by the thoughts that often haunt me I will accept them for their being part of me but not let them overcome me because my reasons for ‘being’ far outweigh those for not
- I will create for the sake of creating, for me, for the purity of it and how it makes me feel
- I will do yoga and meditation three times a week
- I will listen to my ‘inner voice’ that comes from my soul and let go of things external that drown out that voice, for they are not real
- I will make time for me and not feel guilty; for when I reconnect with myself and am rested in body and spirit I can give so much more to those I love so dearly
~love u all, happy year~
Merry Christmas Eve
It has been a very full week here at the Shard household. Let’s see…yesterday we got a bit of a storm and it was so beautiful to watch the big flakes float down so softly from the sky. I love the silence that comes with the fluffy flakes. It’s very serene and peaceful to me. It’s almost like those millions of flakes are saying, “Shhh…slow down…look at us…enjoy us…”.
I know, yet again, I have used my iPhone for another pic. Ugh – I can’t help myself sometime. I need to go out and get a good point and shoot, I’m just too fussy and can’t decide. I don’t want to pay $500 for a p&s when I have a super-duper dslr. So, for now, it’s iPhone because I’m just too lazy sometimes to go upstairs and get my camera out of the bag. I know, silly, but true. However, I did use it today to take some great pics of all of the cousins when they came over today to exchange gifts. It’s amazing as they get older they actually all sit and listen and look at the camera – wow!!! I will post one of the pics if it’s okay with everyone – gotta check that first….
Yesterday, I started the long and arduous, yet mostly enjoyable, task of making a GF gingerbread house from scratch. You can’t buy ‘em gluten-free and L&X saw the cookie cutter set at the store so I couldn’t help myself. It did go fairly well all things considered, I guess, but I did try to hurry things along since I only had one cookie tray and I had to work later. I didn’t wait for the cookies to cool down before transferring them to a rack. Some of them were too soft and fell apart. I had to redo one roof part, two sides and two fronts. We also have a temper-mental oven so some of the bottoms got a little too cooked although the tops were perfect. Seriously? Why? All part of the process I know.
At this point I had to relinquish the power of the gg house creating to Steve. I had to go to work. On the bus. In the snow. Fun. So the rest was up to Steve and the boys. I got a pic of the first icing-making effort – it was not pretty. It was clumpy. Oil and icing sugar do not mix. Literally. We usually use oil as a sub for margarine for making breads because it’s easier and cheaper. Cookies too. No problem there. But, apparently, not so good for icing. So, try number two came out with better results, albeit still a bit tricky. Here’s a pic of what’s been constructed so far with a little help from some Tim’s cups for support:
I think it looks great! Can we be done now? I’m afraid to touch it for fear the roof may slide off. I’ll keep you posted, fingers crossed!
This morning, although we had a plethora of things yet to accomplish before family arrived at 1pm, I was determined to make a wack of gf waffles again so I could freeze some for future breakfasts. Future meaning like Christmas morning. Meaning tomorrow morning. Tripling the recipe according to Catherine’s recipe went very well and we managed to have a load left over. Off to the freezer they went. Cool.
I must say here that the iPhone is certainly fun to use when the lighting is right. So fun!
Waffles and breakfast over-with, next on the list was um, making gf sugar cookies. I made up the dough and put it into the fridge to chill at which point it becomes a blur. I know that suddenly it was noon and I had to sew seven little stockings to put treats into and I hadn’t even taken a good look at my ‘new’ sewing machine. (A great find on Kijiji and only used once before me) I crossed my fingers and plugged in the sewing machine and sewed a sample piece. Ah, it ran smooth as butta. Beautiful! I finished the stockings at about 12:45 which was longer than necessary but I realized, with Steve’s help, that I was one stocking short and it took me a bit to find the extra material. It was on top of the microwave in a papier-maché bowl. Isn’t that where everyone keeps extra material?
I was thinking of an easy way to close the top of the stockings without the kids struggling to rip open a sewn top so I used some previously painted green clothes pins. Perfect! The kids loved them, I think especially since they were unexpected. I like that. :0 Aren’t they cute? I can’t take all the credit – Martha Stewart made me do it.
1pm, family arriving and I’m making sugar cookies. The dough is so much easier to roll out as it is much ‘wetter’ I want to say. But, that being said, this makes it harder to transfer to the cookie sheet. So, not only did some of them burn on the bottom (a bit), some of them were also not really recognizable. Our niece held up one cookie asking what it was. I said, ‘It’s holly. No. It’s a tree.’ Oh, well. At least they tasted good. Nothing to see here as far as cookie pics. Didn’t think of it and probably didn’t want to remember the oddly shaped, albeit, yet yummy tasting cookies.
Once all the kids left I made some yummy potato soup with onions, garlic, dill and fennel. So yum! Totally off topic but so enjoyable! Then we Skyped with Nanna and Pappa. When I asked the boys during dinner what their favourite thing about this year was so far they said, ‘visiting Nanna and Pappa. And Cheeky Monkey.’ I can’t argue there. Our visit to see Mom and Gary was awesome as always. The boys love seeing them and their friends and going to play at Cheeky Monkey, the coolest indoor playground even for adults with some kid in them. Rocket slide, you are one crazy fast piece of plastic! Eek!
Suddenly it was 6:30 and we all jumped in the car to drive around and check out Christmas lights. Xander said he counted more than two hundred houses with lights. It was fun to see how people decorate their homes. The glow of the lights just really gets me in the mood for the holidays. Of course, the street that we found with the most houses decorated was just 5 minutes from us. Our street was pitiful. That includes us. The plug to our house is in the driveway so not in a convenient spot at all when it’s late at night and very cold outside and you need to unplug the lights. I know, we should get one of those extension cords with a switch. I know. We said that last year too…
We got home, and helped the boys get ready for bed and Steve and Lucas read, “The Night Before Christmas” and off they went into ‘Christmas dreamland’. I usually say to them as I kiss them goodnight, “Sweet dreams come true”. This time, after I made this wish to the boys, Xander said, “Sweet Christmas dreams come true”. Indeed…which leads me to the next part – gift wrapping…
Santa, as always, dropped off gifts and I took a quick pic of the wrapping. Always impressed I’m with Santa’s wrapping ways. I still wonder what his hand-writing looks like because he always uses these cute little tags. Hmmm…I guess these days, with computers and all, and so many gifts to deliver, the time it takes to print out a tag is much less than writing. What a hand-cramp that would be. Carpel tunnel anyone?
…and like we told the boys, Santa can’t get you everything on your list as he has so many children to deliver gifts to. Well, Santa is good. He got them one thing on their list and a couple ones that they had forgotten to mention when they made their lists with Daddy last night while I was at work. Boy, that Santa, he is fast. He can even do last-minute requests! Xander decided to place his list on the tree so it wouldn’t be missed by Santa. He used a magnet from our dart game. Works perfect with a fake tree. Lucas’ list is in the next best place, the refrigerator door.
I was surprised to see Lucas’ list much shorter than Xander’s. Then again, I think this was a ‘carry over’ from his birthday list. He totally scored on that one.
Steve and I managed to wrap a few gifts from us. I decided to do something a little different for the tags. Maybe I was inspired by Santa’s savvyness. Or, maybe I saw something like this online. That Martha sure is crafty!
Now here I am with my glass of wine, the gifts are under three tree, stockings stuffed and I am pooped.
Merry Christmas, everyone. Love you all!
xoxoxo Us
Good night and Sweet Christmas dreams come true.
~smile~
























